tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6278879873135131919.post7070428519458844370..comments2023-04-12T05:54:06.606-07:00Comments on My Walk: The Couch: A First for UsKilee Mariehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15244829278593680810noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6278879873135131919.post-49530922006169564562013-08-17T22:20:18.349-07:002013-08-17T22:20:18.349-07:00Good job sticking to your boundary. Being respect...Good job sticking to your boundary. Being respectful to yourself is not mean.Harriethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13474537556571688575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6278879873135131919.post-54858305416077405722013-08-17T19:59:55.389-07:002013-08-17T19:59:55.389-07:00Thank you, everyone, for your support. Even though...Thank you, everyone, for your support. Even though it makes me sad that we are all in similar positions, it is also so good to hear you relating to my experiences. THANK YOU!Kilee Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15244829278593680810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6278879873135131919.post-23232930163680648002013-08-17T07:10:45.438-07:002013-08-17T07:10:45.438-07:00I am notorious for being the "strong" an...I am notorious for being the "strong" and forgiving one immediately after the relapse and then crashing and burning a few days later. It does help me a lot to not postpone my processing just to protect his feelings. You are so loving and kind. Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15354593791540400671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6278879873135131919.post-81301806809642872422013-08-17T05:52:11.858-07:002013-08-17T05:52:11.858-07:00Good for your for sticking with your boundary, eve...Good for your for sticking with your boundary, even though it was hard! I really related to your dilemma about lowering expectations and also the fear of enabling vs codependency. It is so hard to know I need to take a stand and when I need to be loving,soft place for my husband. It can be so confusing, good for you for making decisions that are not based in fear!!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6278879873135131919.post-15567622767145142172013-08-16T22:51:11.653-07:002013-08-16T22:51:11.653-07:00You are so incredibly strong :) I believe you did ...You are so incredibly strong :) I believe you did the right thing. I am not sure yet how I will react with a relapse. Right now I feel I could handle it, but I am not certain.<br /><br />Hugs and prayers are coming your way! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com